Showing posts with label Patience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Patience. Show all posts

Sunday, April 12, 2020

The Choosing Place

The furnace of affliction! It is God's meeting place with His people. "I have chosen you," says He, "in the furnace of affliction. I will keep you there, until the purifying process is complete; and if need be, in a 'chariot of fire' I will carry you to heaven!"


Some fires are for destruction, but the furnace of affliction is for purification. He, the Refiner, is sitting by the furnace regulating the flames, tempering the heat; not the least filing of the gold but what is precious to Him! The bush is burning with fire, but He is in the middle of it; a living God in a bush; a living Savior in the furnace! And has this not been the method of His dealing with His redeemed people in every age.


First, trial then blessing. First, difficulties then deliverances. First, Egyptian plagues, darkness, brick kilns, the Red Sea, forty years of desert privations then Canaan! First, the burning fiery furnace then the vision of "one like the Son of God!" Or, as with Elijah on Carmel, the answer is first by fire and then by rain. First, the fiery trial then the gentle descent of the Spirit's influences, coming down like "rain upon the mown grass, and as showers that water the earth."


Believer! be it yours to ask, "Are my trials sanctified?" Are they making me holier, purer, better, more meek, more gentle, more heavenly-minded, more Savior-like? Seek to "glorify God in the fires." Patience is a grace which the angels cannot manifest.


Patience is a flower of earth: it does not bloom in Paradise; it requires tribulation for its exercise; it is nurtured only amid wind, and hail, and storm. By patient, unmurmuring submission, remember, you, a poor sinner, can thus magnify God in a way the loftiest angelic natures cannot do! His design is to purge away your dross, to bring you forth from the furnace reflecting His own image, and fitted for glory!


Those intended for great usefulness are much in the refining pot. "His children have found suffering times happy times. They never have such nearness to their Father, such holy freedom with Him, and such heavenly refreshment with Him as under the cross!"


[John MacDuff]



Isaiah 48:10 … Behold, I have refined thee, but not with silver; I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction.

Wednesday, March 11, 2020

Patient Waiting

Patience supposes trials, difficulties, and burdens, it is a grace of which we have much need on earth. The objects of our hope are all future, all good, and all promised. There is not an evil but we hope to be one day rid of! There is not a blessing but we hope one day to enjoy it! This present world is a land of hope. Heaven is a land of fruition. The highest object of our hope is perfect holiness, exact conformity to the Lord Jesus Christ to be brought to such a state, that we shall glorify our God in every desire, thought, feeling, and action.


We hope for the period when we shall say: farewell sickness, welcome perpetual health; farewell sorrow welcome everlasting joy; farewell sin, welcome perfect purity; farewell ignorance, welcome perfect knowledge; farewell desertion, welcome the eternal, presence of my God; farewell death, welcome everlasting life! Do we hope for these things? Then let us patiently wait for them.


The blessings we expect are worth waiting for they are laid up for us in Heaven! Faith believes the message respecting them, hope longs to be put in possession,
love incites to grateful acknowledgments and holy walking, ardent desire wants immediate enjoyment but patience is willing to wait. Her language is, "All the days of my appointed time I will wait, until my change comes."


Seasons of trouble seem long; but what are the longest seasons compared with eternity an eternity of perfect blessedness?


Patient waiting insures an enlarged experience of Jehovah's love and goodness. Your present journey will lead you to a place of repose, "where the wicked cease from troubling, and the weary are at rest." Your troubles will end well, everlastingly well!


[James Smith]


Romans 8:25 … But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.

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Wednesday, November 13, 2019

The Highest Class

By patience, we mean a quiet waiting, amidst sufferings and sorrows for the heavenly kingdom. Patience is an uncomplaining willingness to remain any length of time, and amidst any tribulation, for eternal glory. No circumstances of life let the sufferer hear and drink in the soul-comforting thought no circumstances of life seem to ripen the Christian so fast or so perfectly for Heaven as the experience of sorrow and affliction. Oh! then let our comforts go, then let our eyes weep, then let our hearts bleed if our Father is thus ripening us for everlasting fruition and inconceivable bliss!


When we are enabled to exercise the grace of patience, we have reached the highest class in the school of Christ, have nothing more to learn upon earth, and are ready and fit to depart, and to be with Jesus and have then obtained as much grace as can be possessed, short of glory itself!


Patience then, sufferer, patience! The first moment, and the first glance of Heaven will be an infinite recompense for all that you suffer for all that you lose on earth! If every step on earth is a step of suffering then let each be a step of patience!


Weep you may, murmur you must not. Nature may pay the tribute of a groan but grace must pay it with a smile. The shower of your tears may fall but the rays of the Sun of Righteousness must reflect the beauteous rainbow of the promise.


Christian, you make your way to glory along the path of patient resignation, which, if it is like the Valley of Weeping, and has its briars and its thorns has also its refreshing rain-pools of heavenly consolation!


[John Angell James]

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Hebrews 6:12 … That ye be not slothful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promises.




James 1:4 … But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.

Monday, July 9, 2018

The Easiest Way

A farmer was passing through his field one day when he observed a hole in the fence. As he was weary from his labors, instead of properly repairing the fence he stuck a piece of a rail in the hole and went his way. The next morning he found half a dozen hogs in his cornfield and spent an hour or so getting them out and making proper repairs on the fence. Considerable destruction had also been done in the field to the growing crop. He had taken the easiest way, as it seemed but in the end it proved to be the hardest way.

A timberman broke his log chain. Instead of having it properly repaired he took the easiest way, as it seemed to him, and fastened the chain together with wire. A few days later he was some miles from home loading logs when the repaired place in the chain broke. This time he had no wire, so he was compelled to unhitch his team and go several miles to the repair shop and lost nearly a half day of valuable time.

Doing things the easiest way, often proves to be doing them the poorest way, the costliest way, and in the end the hardest way. The farmer who does this, may be known by the looks of his barnyard and buildings. The merchant who does this, comes to bankruptcy. The mechanic who does this, loses his job. In the spiritual life, though, many follow these examples, even when they know the outcome cannot be good. They see some duty they ought to do, but they let it go undone. They see some progress they ought to make that would require an effort on their part, but they just let go and risk all, hoping that someway, somehow it will come out all right anyway. 

How easy it is to say, "Oh, just let it go!" This is the easiest way for the time being but in the end, is it really the easiest way? Are not such people constantly reproached by their conscience for their neglect? Do they not miss the joy and peace and satisfaction of heart which come from the knowledge of duty well done? Is not the loss of an approving conscience in these matters, greater than the effort it would take to do duty and to do it properly? Neglect in the present, just letting things drift makes the future harder. It robs one of a thousand blessings. It often fills the soul with regret and sometimes with remorse. So the easiest way cannot be neglect of duty. Neglect of opportunities, neglect to measure up to God's expectations or the expectations of our brethren, while it may be easy for the moment is harder in the end and often becomes disastrous. 

So when in spiritual things you are tempted to say, "Just let it go," whether you say it to another or say it to your own soul means that you are choosing the hardest way in at least nine cases out of ten. The present ease, will mean future hardness, and usually dissatisfaction and regret. The easiest way of all is to do what ought to be done, when it ought to be done, and in the way it ought to be done. Then the conscience and the mind are at rest and we feel a gratifying sense of satisfaction in duty well done. When we do attempt a thing, whether it be some labor, some duty toward others, self-cultivation, or whatever it may be, we are many times tempted to choose the method that requires the least labor, without regard to the final results. We feel we must do something, but perhaps there is not a willingness to exert oneself to the extent necessary to do the thing the best way.

The artisan who does this, soon has the reputation of being a poor workman. The farmer who does this, raises poor crops. The preacher who does, this preaches poor sermons. The Christian who does this, is not a progressive and thoroughly happy and blessed Christian. What is really easiest in the end, is that which is best. When we use the best method then we get the best results. When we slight our work, then we always pay dearly for our attempt to do things the easiest way.

When one of those neglectful Christians who does things the way that seems the easiest for the moment, gets sick or gets into serious difficulty or under a heavy trial, he pays very dearly for his indolent attitude hitherto. He is where he needs grace and strength, where he needs to be vigorous and strong, where he needs a good conscience and a confident assurance. He does not have these. Therefore, his battle will be much harder to win, and his difficulties will be harder to overcome.  He wonders why his trials are heavier than those of others. The trouble is, that he has weakened himself by taking the easiest way. He has neglected to strengthen the weak places. He has omitted doing what he knew he ought to do, and now he must pay the full penalty for it. His past ease, must now be corrected by great labors. When we slight the present, we rob the future. When we rob the future, we incur a debt we must surely pay in that future day. Many have repaid such debts with tears and heartaches, with sorrows and struggles, with defeats and sometimes with disasters. How much easier it is in the end, when we have done things properly all the way along!

Sometimes people think the easiest way is the way that requires the least sacrifice. They know it would be better if they would sacrifice something to gain the end desired, but they refuse to sacrifice, and take the easier way. They miss the reward of sacrifice. They miss the satisfaction of work well done and often regret not having made the sacrifice.  Sometimes to do things as they ought to be done, requires humiliation, self-abasement, and the condition of being misunderstood by others. Those who are not willing to humble themselves, often seek for an easier way, a way which will not humiliate them but what they do can never satisfy their own souls. Whenever they think of the matter, there will be an inward unrest. There will be a sense of having come short of God's real purpose, and of having missed an opportunity of which they should have taken the fullest advantage. They have really done the thing in the hardest way—and the humiliation they shunned led to an inward humiliation that will last longer even though it was not greater at the time.

Let us do things as we ought to do them. Let us live as we ought to live, sacrifice as we ought to sacrifice, and measure up to the full standard of the truth. Then we shall have the satisfaction of duty well done. We shall have the approval of our conscience. We shall have the approval of God. We shall have that peace which passes all understanding. We shall have grace to meet our trials, temptations, and difficulties. We shall be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might.  But if we do things the easiest way then we shall be weak and faltering, we shall have a thousand difficulties we would not otherwise have, and we can never develop that rich fullness of Christian experience that we are privileged to have, if we will do things as they ought to be done.


[Charles Naylor]


Psalm 46:10 … Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.

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Sunday, June 10, 2018

In His Timing

There is tremendous power in giving yourself ‘listening space’ WITH GOD in regards to your circumstance.




[Troi Nelson Cockayne]







Isaiah 40:31 … But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.



Proverbs 3:5-6 … Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.




Lamentations 3:25-26 … The Lord is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him.  It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the Lord.❤

Saturday, September 23, 2017

Providences of God

The providences of God are often dark and mysterious. It is not easy to ascertain why the Lord acts as He does or to find out the precise object which He has in view. He carries on His work according to His eternal and pre-ordained plan--and He accomplishes His purposes often by the most unlikely means. He works all things after the counsel of His own will and He works leisurely, having no cause to hurry. We are naturally hasty, and want to know what God means at once. But He says, "Be still. Wait. Watch. Let patience have her perfect work."


We may not be able to account for our trials, troubles, losses, and crosses but all will be made plain by-and-by. We now know in part but we shall soon know even as also we are known. And until then, we may well be patient assured that God is acting wisely, lovingly, and is consulting our good in all that He does.



O wonder-working God, Your dealings with us are often dark, and difficult to be understood! Give us faith to believe Your promises when we cannot understand Your providences. Let us be assured of Your love to us when we cannot ascertain the design of Your dealings with us. Preserve us from a repining, complaining, and unbelieving spirit and grant us grace that we may rest satisfied that You are acting rightly. May we learn, in whatever state we are therewith to be content. With patience may we do and suffer Your will at present being fully assured that all will be explained and opened up to us at length. O to be enabled  to rest on Your covenant love,  to trust Your faithful promises, and to commit all of our ways unto You!


[James Smith]


John 13:7 ... Jesus answered and said unto him, What I do thou knowest not now; but thou shalt know hereafter.


Psalm 25:10 ... All the paths of the Lord are mercy and truth unto such as keep his covenant and his testimonies.


Psalm 77:19 ... Thy way is in the sea, and thy path in the great waters, and thy footsteps are not known.❤

Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Biblical Patience

Patient Christians endure negative circumstances, cope with difficult people, and accept God’s plan for everything. In our instant, microwave, drive-through, “I want it now” culture, patience is hard to come by. We get upset if we have to wait too long in the supermarket line or get stuck behind the guy driving ten miles per hour under the speed limit.

But today’s Scripture tells us that our lives need to be marked by patience. The Greek word translated “patience” literally means “long-tempered.” A patient person doesn’t have a short fuse or lose his temper.

There are three aspects to biblical patience. First, patience never gives in to negative circumstances, no matter how difficult. God told Abraham He would make him into a great nation and give Canaan to his descendants (Genesis 12:2, 7). When God made this promise, Abraham and Sarah had no children. They had to wait far past their childbearing years before God gave them a son. But Hebrews 6:15 says, “Having patiently waited, [Abraham] obtained the promise.” “He did not waver in unbelief, but grew strong in faith, giving glory to God” (Romans 4:20). He trusted God and patiently waited for Him to fulfill His promise.

A second aspect of patience is coping with difficult people. Paul tells us to “be patient with all men” (1 Thessalonians 5:14). This is applied gentleness, a spirit that refuses to retaliate. Our normal reaction is to be defensive when provoked. But a patient person bears insult, persecution, unfair treatment, slander, and hatred. You can’t start a fight with a patient person. He defends God, not himself, knowing that He will repay all wrongs at the right time.

Third, patience accepts God’s plan for everything. It doesn’t question God. A patient person says, “Lord, if this is what You have planned for me, that’s all right.” Romans 8:28 says, “We know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” Since God is in control, we can be patient, waiting for Him to work out His will.


[John MacArthur]

 




Ephesians 4:1-3 ... I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,  With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;  Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.❤

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

A Sweet Lesson on Patience

A NYC Taxi driver wrote:

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked.. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across
the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.

'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.

She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.'

'Oh, you're such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive through downtown?'

'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly.

'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in a soft voice..'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.







We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'. We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

'How much do I owe you?' She asked, reaching into her purse.

'Nothing,' I said.

'You have to make a living,' she answered.

'There are other passengers,' I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug.She held onto me tightly.

'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life.

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk.What if that woman had gotten an angry driver,or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.

We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.

But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.


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Monday, August 11, 2014

Grow Old Sweetly and Beautifully

It takes a great deal of grace to grow old sweetly and beautifully. It is not possible to carry the alertness and energy of young manhood, into advanced years. Yet if we live wisely and rightly all our lives old age ought to be the best of life. We certainly ought to make it beautiful and godly, for our life is not finished until we come to its very last day.

We ought to be wiser when we are old than ever we have been in any former years. We ought to have learned by experience. We ought to be better in every way with more of God's peace in our hearts, with more gentleness and patience. We ought to have learned self-control, and to be better able to rule our own spirit. We ought to have more love, more joy, more thoughtfulness, to be more considerate, to have more humility.

Old age never should be the dregs of the years, the mere cinder of a burnt-out life. One may not have the vigor and strenuousness of the mid-years but one should be every way truer, richer-hearted, holier. If the outward man has grown weaker and feebler, the inner man should have grown stronger and Christlike.
 
[J. R. Miller]


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Isaiah 46:4 ... And even to your old age I am he; and even to hoar hairs will I carry you: I have made, and I will bear; even I will carry, and will deliver you.


Psalm 92:14 ... They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be fat and flourishing;


2 Peter 3:18 ... But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen.❤

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Patience

 If you take the time it takes, it takes less time.

[Cowboy Wisdom]





Romans 12:12 ... Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;


Galatians 6:9 ... And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.


Ephesians 4:2 ... With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;


James 1:4 ... But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.