"Find your happiness in God and He will give you the askings of your heart." This is the exact rendering of Psalm 37:4, and it throws a flood of light upon the important question of what is right prayer and what is wrong prayer. A great deal of prayer is born of selfishness, and takes on the airs of dictating to our Heavenly Father. It is not humble supplication, born of a devout, submissive spirit; but it amounts to a demand. God's promises to His children are not unconditional; and we may not presume to dictate to the God of wisdom and of love.
What is laid down distinctly, as the indispensable quality of right asking in the above quoted verse? It is a right feeling towards God. When a soul comes into such an entire submissiveness towards God that it can honestly say, "Nevertheless, not as I will but as You will;" when that soul delights in seeing God reign, and in seeing His glory advanced then its desires will be so purified from the dregs of selfishness, that they may be fearlessly poured out before God. In this frame of unselfish submissiveness, the soul may indeed come boldly to the throne of grace, and ask for grace suited to its every need. The desires of God and the desires of a sincere Christly soul, will then agree. God loves to give to those who love to be submissive to Him. They are as willing to accept His "no" as His "yes," for they are seeking not their own desires and glory but His! As a kind father loves to grant the reasonable requests of a dutiful son, so does our Heavenly Father love to grant righteous and reasonable requests of His children!
[Theodore Cuyler]
Psalm 37:4 … Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.❤
